Becoming the right person is more important than choosing the right person. We look at this in light of dating, marriage and sex.  All played out in Song of Songs which is God's statement of redemption about sexuality and marriage.    Song of Songs 1:1-8

Cain and Abel

Interesting how the pattern of Genesis 4 is somewhat repeated from Chapter 3 both on the part of God and now Cain/Abel.  We see the generous heart of God and how we are prone to reject that. Yet God's posture is bent  towards restoration.  Why won't we receive it?   Genesis 4:1-16